Dont feel like dating after breakup
) to jump on Tinder because you know your ex is seeing someone new.But honestly, this is never setting yourself up for a fulfilling dating experience. Whether you “consciously uncoupled” or were heartlessly dumped out of the blue, any kind of parting ways can sting. Very rarely can a breakup lead to a solid friendship, and until you’re okay with the idea of your ex dating someone new — and vice versa — you’re not ready to be pals.There are healthy ways to deal with your grief, which is real and vaild, but there are also things that can trip you up and postpone healing. Create intentional space for a while and let yourself mourn the end of the relationship.The good news is that we can learn from these mistakes!And even though breakups are never easy, they can be more or less painful depending on how we handle them.
If something more develops and you are happy with that, great!
Here are a few thoughts on getting back on the dating scene after a break-up.
Don’t do it because your ex is It’s so tempting (and easy!
Put in black and white, you’re not going to have amazing connection with everyone you go on a date with and they won’t with you.
See the fun in it; it’s an experience and even in the worst case scenario, a story!